My Boyfriend And I Broke Up Because Of His Family And Just Bad Timing, Is He Honestly Telling The Truth?
on November 16th, 2010 at 5:39 amThis guy and I got out of a previous relationship basically at the same time. His ex hates me due to personal issues. My ex and his ex had some one night stands. He and I are both over our exes because they both were assholes. A week later after the break ups, we ended up talking and going out. I hung out with him and spent the night at his house. We watched movies and just really had an amazing time. We later on went to his room and laid on his bed, listened to music, and talked. We had so many moments of where we’d look into each others eyes and he would chuckle at me and smile. That was how I realized I actually had feelings for him. When we were going to sleep our lips accidently touched, and then we ended up making out and had sex. We decided to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but keep it in secret because of his ex. (She’s a talker and tends to spread things) We decided this because we wanted things to settle down. Especially because his mom is still angry about his ex. His whole family loved her and didn’t expect for her to screw him over.
A week went by, things between him and me were great. Until after church he tells me over the phone that he and his little sister talked and decided that it’d be best if he and me just be friends for now. He told me that he really likes me, but with his whole family not being use to the idea its just too soon for him to be in another relationship, and that he didn’t want to keep me a secret from his mom. He told me that in the future when i’m older basically in a few months that hopefully he and I can get back together and pick up where we left off. He told me that he and I can still text, talk, and hangout just can’t do things that couples do. He said that he’s just doing what he thinks is best for him for the time being.
He’s really a sweet guy with a big heart. During the times I had a struggle with his ex he was nice to me about the whole situation, She was a really big ***** and he doesn’t care or have the feelings he had for her anymore. I heard from his friends that he likes me more than he ever did like his ex. And they told me that I shouldn’t worry, because they said that the kind of person he is he wouldn’t lie about us getting back together someday in the future. Should I believe him? I’ve been screwed over and hurt so many times…. I just hope I won’t again.
its nearly been a year, m just curious….did itt workout?